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Tell me about her. Looks, likes/dislikes, etc
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zombie wrote:
Jason wrote:
zombie wrote:
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zombie wrote:what's holding you back? is it the two children thing, or is there more to it?
I'd say it's mostly that, but I've stayed out of relationships for years because of the crappiness I've experienced in all my other ones. So I'm accustomed to being alone. Drastic change is something I'm not sure I'm ready for.
do you see any red flags, with her, that you had with the other girls that treated you badly?
No. She used to go to clubs and bars a lot with her friends but has seemed to have mellowed out. Likely because she has two kids.
in that case, i'd go for it in your position. unless there's something you're holding back.
He is going for her, bro. He has been from the start.
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Don't come off controlling or creepy, also don't push something that's not there. Also, look good, smell good, hang loose and make her chase you a little too. You're cool as shit and have a lot to offer too, just be humble about it.
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I've told everything to the best of my knowledge. It's really hard to figure out why I'm so hesitant to pull the trigger aside from her already having kids.
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When you see the kids, treat them like little adults. You'll never Dad, but that's cool, you can be Rob. Don't worry about responsibilities that aren't yours, just be cool you to the kids.
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DAEBO wrote:Don't come off controlling or creepy, also don't push something that's not there. Also, look good, smell good, hang loose and make her chase you a little too. You're cool as shit and have a lot to offer too, just be humble about it.
That's not an issue at all. The only issue at this point is figuring out if I really want to go for it.
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Jason wrote:I've told everything to the best of my knowledge. It's really hard to figure out why I'm so hesitant to pull the trigger aside from her already having kids.
It's because it's a change and you're comfortable. The good news is that's what dating is for, you can try it out before you buy.
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DAEBO wrote:
zombie wrote:
Jason wrote:
zombie wrote:
Jason wrote:
zombie wrote:what's holding you back? is it the two children thing, or is there more to it?
I'd say it's mostly that, but I've stayed out of relationships for years because of the crappiness I've experienced in all my other ones. So I'm accustomed to being alone. Drastic change is something I'm not sure I'm ready for.
do you see any red flags, with her, that you had with the other girls that treated you badly?
No. She used to go to clubs and bars a lot with her friends but has seemed to have mellowed out. Likely because she has two kids.
in that case, i'd go for it in your position. unless there's something you're holding back.
He is going for her, bro. He has been from the start.
cool. i hope that it works out for the both of them.
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DAEBO wrote:Tell me about her. Looks, likes/dislikes, etc
I'll post a picture. Hold on.
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Gonna take it down eventually.



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Jason wrote:Gonna take it down eventually.



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Nice. Not out of your league.
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DAEBO wrote:Tell me about her. Looks, likes/dislikes, etc
I'm not sure much about her likes/dislikes. The closest we've ever been was "hi/bye", and that was back in high school. All I know about her is mostly what I remember from high school: She was the most popular girl in school, lots of friends, a little wild and outgoing back in the day, but she was not stuck up and would give anyone the time of day. She knew she was popular and a lot of guys dug her, but didn't hold it over anyone's head. Always nice to me whenever talked.
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DAEBO wrote:
Jason wrote:Gonna take it down eventually.



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Nice. Not out of your league.
Looks-wise? Yeah, I'd say she probably is out of my league. :p
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Jason wrote:
DAEBO wrote:Tell me about her. Looks, likes/dislikes, etc
I'm not sure much about her likes/dislikes. The closest we've ever been was "hi/bye", and that was back in high school. All I know about her is mostly what I remember from high school: She was the most popular girl in school, lots of friends, a little wild and outgoing back in the day, but she was not stuck up and would give anyone the time of day. She knew she was popular and a lot of guys dug her, but didn't hold it over anyone's head. Always nice to me whenever talked.
You gotta find that out. Go on a loose fun date like a water park or something public. See if you like her, ask her things about herself, etc. She if she fits you. Just don't be dick, insult her, or wait staff, you will kill the whole date in a second.
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Jason wrote:
DAEBO wrote:
Jason wrote:Gonna take it down eventually.



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Nice. Not out of your league.
Looks-wise? Yeah, I'd say she probably is out of my league. :p
You're a prize too, dude. Remember that.
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DAEBO wrote:
Jason wrote:
DAEBO wrote:Tell me about her. Looks, likes/dislikes, etc
I'm not sure much about her likes/dislikes. The closest we've ever been was "hi/bye", and that was back in high school. All I know about her is mostly what I remember from high school: She was the most popular girl in school, lots of friends, a little wild and outgoing back in the day, but she was not stuck up and would give anyone the time of day. She knew she was popular and a lot of guys dug her, but didn't hold it over anyone's head. Always nice to me whenever talked.
You gotta find that out. Go on a loose fun date like a water park or something public. See if you like her, ask her things about herself, etc. She if she fits you. Just don't be dick, insult her, or wait staff, you will kill the whole date in a second.
Bruh, I have no problem communicating with her at all. lol. I'm only afraid to actually go for it.
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DAEBO wrote:
Jason wrote:
DAEBO wrote:
Jason wrote:Gonna take it down eventually.



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Nice. Not out of your league.
Looks-wise? Yeah, I'd say she probably is out of my league. :p
You're a prize too, dude. Remember that.
Aww!!

Wanna go to the water park or something? :D
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DAEBO wrote:You gotta find that out. Go on a loose fun date like a water park or something public. See if you like her, ask her things about herself, etc. She if she fits you. Just don't be dick, insult her, or wait staff, you will kill the whole date in a second.
What is "wait staff"
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Jason wrote:
DAEBO wrote:You gotta find that out. Go on a loose fun date like a water park or something public. See if you like her, ask her things about herself, etc. She if she fits you. Just don't be dick, insult her, or wait staff, you will kill the whole date in a second.
What is "wait staff"
Waiters or waitresses
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How do I not "wait staff"? lol. I don't follow that.
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