Can't remember the last time I was actually drunk, but this be the thread to Ramble On about whatever might be on your mind that you want to let it out.
I suspect this thread will be a big league disaster.
Anyway: I would've loved to meet Marty Robbins and just shoot the shit. If I were somebody in a previous life he would probably be the guy. I would absorb his wisdom if we ever met
Drunken Ramblings
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Had a few drinks tonight. I typically drink to get in touch with a side of my mind that I can't tap into when I'm sober. Courage is increased, among other things in the mind.
Small story:
Ran into a cute gal I moderately knew in high school. A "hi!, bye!" friendship at best. This was a month or two ago. She works at a restaurant nearby as a waitress, and upon running into her, she told me she still worked there. Told her I might stop by and see her. Flash forward to today, and in my mind altering buzzery from the al-kee-haul, I found myself wishing her a late happy birthday (less than a week ago) and a promise to stop by and see her at work, soon.
She was the "hottest girl in school" for sure. I never got to know her as well as I'd like, but I know her fairly well enough to know that I am at least moderately interested in finally pursuing a relationship with her, despite the fact that she already has two little girls. Not a feeling I'm accustomed to. Problem now is, this al-kee-haul hasn't tapped into any side of the mind that knows why I still want to pursue a relationship. Question marks still linger. AKA: Phase 2, ????
Edit: All I know right now is I tapped into the relationship portion of my mind tonight, and I am strongly considering pursuing a relationship with this girl. Who already has two children. Terrifying thought.
Small story:
Ran into a cute gal I moderately knew in high school. A "hi!, bye!" friendship at best. This was a month or two ago. She works at a restaurant nearby as a waitress, and upon running into her, she told me she still worked there. Told her I might stop by and see her. Flash forward to today, and in my mind altering buzzery from the al-kee-haul, I found myself wishing her a late happy birthday (less than a week ago) and a promise to stop by and see her at work, soon.
She was the "hottest girl in school" for sure. I never got to know her as well as I'd like, but I know her fairly well enough to know that I am at least moderately interested in finally pursuing a relationship with her, despite the fact that she already has two little girls. Not a feeling I'm accustomed to. Problem now is, this al-kee-haul hasn't tapped into any side of the mind that knows why I still want to pursue a relationship. Question marks still linger. AKA: Phase 2, ????
Edit: All I know right now is I tapped into the relationship portion of my mind tonight, and I am strongly considering pursuing a relationship with this girl. Who already has two children. Terrifying thought.
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Messaged her tonight, asked when the best time would be to stop in and see her.Jason wrote:Had a few drinks tonight. I typically drink to get in touch with a side of my mind that I can't tap into when I'm sober. Courage is increased, among other things in the mind.
Small story:
Ran into a cute gal I moderately knew in high school. A "hi!, bye!" friendship at best. This was a month or two ago. She works at a restaurant nearby as a waitress, and upon running into her, she told me she still worked there. Told her I might stop by and see her. Flash forward to today, and in my mind altering buzzery from the al-kee-haul, I found myself wishing her a late happy birthday (less than a week ago) and a promise to stop by and see her at work, soon.
She was the "hottest girl in school" for sure. I never got to know her as well as I'd like, but I know her fairly well enough to know that I am at least moderately interested in finally pursuing a relationship with her, despite the fact that she already has two little girls. Not a feeling I'm accustomed to. Problem now is, this al-kee-haul hasn't tapped into any side of the mind that knows why I still want to pursue a relationship. Question marks still linger. AKA: Phase 2, ????
Edit: All I know right now is I tapped into the relationship portion of my mind tonight, and I am strongly considering pursuing a relationship with this girl. Who already has two children. Terrifying thought.
Don't know what I'm doing. Don't know if I want this. Don't know why I'm doing this. Don't know if she wants this. Don't even know for sure if she is single or not. But I did it. I guess we'll see what happens when she gets back to me. Hope she's OK with being close buds for like two years before I take the next step. :p Relationships terrify me, and even more so when the lady of interest has children.
I have not been drinking tonight, either. Just thought I'd give an update. :p
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Came to update the situation and legit LOL'd when I saw your response... because...showa58taro wrote:Hopefully you get a good reply.
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Shit all if I know. It could be that she didn't know what to say and didn't respond. Or she's not ready to text/call. Or she wants nothing at all to do with me and that encounter a few months ago was all an act. :pReign in Blood wrote:How crude were you to her to make her no reply?
To be honest, I am more relieved than anything. Kinda wished I didn't write the thing. She has kids and shit, but there is still a chance she'll reply and just didn't get around to it yet. Would definitely prefer a girl with no chil'ns, though. And any chil'ns we decide to make will be all our own chil'ns. If this same shit happened when I was like 18 or 19 I would've been like...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BZJxaE318eM&t=2s
bABe WaiT! Plz REspoNd!
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We're in early talks all of a sudden. Something could happen between us, and it's pretty much all on whether or not I want to pull the trigger.
The life-altering crossroads. Left or right? Scary feeling. No idea what to do.
The life-altering crossroads. Left or right? Scary feeling. No idea what to do.
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what's holding you back? is it the two children thing, or is there more to it?
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I'd say it's mostly that, but I've stayed out of relationships for years because of the crappiness I've experienced in all my other ones. So I'm accustomed to being alone. Drastic change is something I'm not sure I'm ready for.zombie wrote:what's holding you back? is it the two children thing, or is there more to it?
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do you see any red flags, with her, that you had with the other girls that treated you badly?Jason wrote:I'd say it's mostly that, but I've stayed out of relationships for years because of the crappiness I've experienced in all my other ones. So I'm accustomed to being alone. Drastic change is something I'm not sure I'm ready for.zombie wrote:what's holding you back? is it the two children thing, or is there more to it?
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Super late to the thread. Love it, btw. My advice, probably null and void at this point, but just hang loose. Keep it casual, be flirty, but don't push too hard on anything.Jason wrote:Had a few drinks tonight. I typically drink to get in touch with a side of my mind that I can't tap into when I'm sober. Courage is increased, among other things in the mind.
Small story:
Ran into a cute gal I moderately knew in high school. A "hi!, bye!" friendship at best. This was a month or two ago. She works at a restaurant nearby as a waitress, and upon running into her, she told me she still worked there. Told her I might stop by and see her. Flash forward to today, and in my mind altering buzzery from the al-kee-haul, I found myself wishing her a late happy birthday (less than a week ago) and a promise to stop by and see her at work, soon.
She was the "hottest girl in school" for sure. I never got to know her as well as I'd like, but I know her fairly well enough to know that I am at least moderately interested in finally pursuing a relationship with her, despite the fact that she already has two little girls. Not a feeling I'm accustomed to. Problem now is, this al-kee-haul hasn't tapped into any side of the mind that knows why I still want to pursue a relationship. Question marks still linger. AKA: Phase 2, ????
Edit: All I know right now is I tapped into the relationship portion of my mind tonight, and I am strongly considering pursuing a relationship with this girl. Who already has two children. Terrifying thought.
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No. She used to go to clubs and bars a lot with her friends but has seemed to have mellowed out. Likely because she has two kids.zombie wrote:do you see any red flags, with her, that you had with the other girls that treated you badly?Jason wrote:I'd say it's mostly that, but I've stayed out of relationships for years because of the crappiness I've experienced in all my other ones. So I'm accustomed to being alone. Drastic change is something I'm not sure I'm ready for.zombie wrote:what's holding you back? is it the two children thing, or is there more to it?
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Ha! wait, I should have read on, I see that now.
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in that case, i'd go for it in your position. unless there's something you're holding back.Jason wrote:No. She used to go to clubs and bars a lot with her friends but has seemed to have mellowed out. Likely because she has two kids.zombie wrote:do you see any red flags, with her, that you had with the other girls that treated you badly?Jason wrote:I'd say it's mostly that, but I've stayed out of relationships for years because of the crappiness I've experienced in all my other ones. So I'm accustomed to being alone. Drastic change is something I'm not sure I'm ready for.zombie wrote:what's holding you back? is it the two children thing, or is there more to it?